this sentence is the best to avoid all your problems ...
the moment you start solving a misunderstanding with someone and trying to make that person believe that this was no ones fault , the person gets offended and starts to accuse you of partisanship . the person just makes you feel so guilty that you will be shocked you will feel like do you even know this person ? o.O
the present reflects in front your eyes but you just want to be trapped in the past . you just want the person the way he was not this new rude , overreactive and angry person .
every word coming from this person becomes a taunt , and you will start feeling like a sword is stabbing your heart every time the words are said . this person just proves that hurt comes from the most unexpected people .
the best way to solve matters is to calm down , look all the possibilities and then make a decision .but every person doesnt follow the code .
the level of hope within you reduces to approximately zero . your brain will say that this the real person the one which was earlier was a fake version but the conflict arises when your heart says that this is just the furious version , the real person is hidden beneath . and there you stand on the cross road waiting to to take a decision , but no conclusion is ever reached .
at the end the end of the whole matter when you have bid farewell and have decided not to continue your friendship and the person takes all the blame , you are left with all the guilt .
and then come the most awaited sentence " i am doing this for you " and the conversation ends......
conversation is the solution to everything , afterall everyone requires a proper farewell . and no person deserves to be denied that just because of a stupid misunderstanding !
the moment you start solving a misunderstanding with someone and trying to make that person believe that this was no ones fault , the person gets offended and starts to accuse you of partisanship . the person just makes you feel so guilty that you will be shocked you will feel like do you even know this person ? o.O
the present reflects in front your eyes but you just want to be trapped in the past . you just want the person the way he was not this new rude , overreactive and angry person .
every word coming from this person becomes a taunt , and you will start feeling like a sword is stabbing your heart every time the words are said . this person just proves that hurt comes from the most unexpected people .
the best way to solve matters is to calm down , look all the possibilities and then make a decision .but every person doesnt follow the code .
the level of hope within you reduces to approximately zero . your brain will say that this the real person the one which was earlier was a fake version but the conflict arises when your heart says that this is just the furious version , the real person is hidden beneath . and there you stand on the cross road waiting to to take a decision , but no conclusion is ever reached .
at the end the end of the whole matter when you have bid farewell and have decided not to continue your friendship and the person takes all the blame , you are left with all the guilt .
and then come the most awaited sentence " i am doing this for you " and the conversation ends......
conversation is the solution to everything , afterall everyone requires a proper farewell . and no person deserves to be denied that just because of a stupid misunderstanding !
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